Monday, October 29, 2012

bonds broken, and bonds formed...



               Typically, bonds broken and bonds formed is more of a chemistry term…well, I mean this sort of has to do with chemistry I guess. But not the periodic table sort of elements, but this type of chemistry has its own elements. Like the elements that make up good relationships, and that break up good relationships, and so on.
               One day after school, this little kid was talking some mad shit about my little sister. I am totally the type of sister that will annoy, prod, bug, torment, do and say whatever to my younger siblings…. But just because I do it, does not mean you or anyone else in this universe can. I will come after you, and I will find you. Back to the story, so he was talking and I was listening, and getting more and more heated by the millisecond. It was almost like a chemical reaction had exploded within me. I pushed that kid into a fence and started screaming at him, his face went from red with laughter 0to white with fear, I was holding him around his neck shoving him into the fenced without even realizing it. I can’t even remember what I was saying or doing, I know someone tried to pull me away, and I was like the Hulk, I wasn’t budging. 

               But that’s just me. I don’t mess around. If you mess with someone I have a “bond” with, for the safety of yourself and those sorry individuals who try to help you, I suggest you don’t even think about it. I have no problem standing up for those close to me, or what I believe in. It’s just not okay. Sure my siblings bug the crap out of me more often than not, but I would take a bullet for them any day, same with my dad and really my family. Granted I would only take a bullet for my siblings and Dad and Grandparents, I would stand up and fight for anyone else. We just have those bonds. Sometimes they are broken slightly, but I’d never fully sever those.
               Times have shown me that I need to stand up for who I am, and what I believe in and for those I love, because you have to be strong, and you won’t win everything, but people you love and care about will be there for you. The bond with my family (a select few of them) is stronger than words I can think of, and though that doesn’t hold true for all of them, they’re a part of me, and we’re bonded one way or another. 


2 comments:

  1. Find it funny that you refer to chemistry. Thought it is very understandable that they mean so much and they should to anyone that has a family. I know for myself that my family means a lot to me as well.

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  2. I know how you feel about having a bond with your family. My brother and I get into fights, but I know that we would do anything for each other when it came down to it.

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